and boy is younger to me and is from a lower community which is wat we are facing as a problem. will there be any family problems as long as we both mutually understand each other? please advise.How to convince my parents so that they accept my inter cast marriage?It won't be easy for you bt it is not tough as well. you need to speak about the quality of the boy rather than how much you love him or how much he loves you. parents does not understand and don't want to know all that. if they look someone for you they will see the education and the job of boy, the reputation of the family in society ( I mean if there is any criminal record or how educated the whole family is, if they have own house etc). sooo you need to focus on all that. tell your parents that whatever they would have looked for you, you have already found ... age is also not a big deal as long you understand that man does not get matured quickly. I am 3 years younger to my husband and still he is much weak and immatured in life. There is no gurantee of family problem in any marriage. there are many marriages that take place in same cast but still they can't get on with eachother.
I hope, I helped a bit... Best of luckHow to convince my parents so that they accept my inter cast marriage?YES, there will always be problems with in-laws, even if the parents approve of the marraige. The question isn't if there will be problems, but how bad they'll be and if that's something you're willing and prepared to deal with.
You should keep in mmind, though, that you're not marrying them , you;'re marrying him, so while how they feel is relevant to the two of you, it's not necessarily relevant to the marraige unless one or both of you ahs an unhealthy relatinship with your parents. You can't please everyone, least of all your in-laws.
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